DAD'S RAMBLINGS -- STRENGTHENING OTHERS

DAD'S RAMBLINGS – A FRIEND IN NEED

"Then Jonathan. Saul's son, arose and went to David in the woods and strengthened his hand in God." (I Samuel 23:16)

The relationship of Jonathan and David is a wonderful part of this saga.

Their friendship blossomed early on while David was still in Saul's palace. Jonathan recognized that God's hand was upon David, and that someday David would be king.However, "The soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul" (I Samuel 18:1; 20:17). "Jonathan, Saul's son, delighted greatly in David" (I Samuel 19:1). He even strategized to protect David from the wrath of his father, Saul. This despite the fact that Jonathan was the heir apparent to the throne after Saul's death. There was no hint of jealousy or selfishness on Jonathan's part. This is an amazing thing.

Jonathan was the kind of person who would strengthen the soul of someone who would eventually supplant him. He was willing to encourage David in his time of distress. This is a God-given love. Human love would fail in times like that.

How often do we work overtime to protect our own turf? This happens a lot in the business world and in politics. But, sadly, it also happens in God's church. People who think that a particular ministry is their own, and they are jealous of anyone who might be a threat to their position of leadership. It ought not to be. If God raises up someone else to take our place, can we with great joy, love and accept that person as a God-sent replacement, and even help them be prepared to take our place? Often the answer is no. "I've played the piano here for 45 years. Some young whippersnapper is not going to take my place!" We often act as though the ministry belongs to us rather than God. Even if God has a different idea, we hang on to our position with iron fists.

It seems to me that we should be willing to encourage those whom God has placed in our path who might take our place. They may go through some tough times of doubt and questioning, but we can uplift their spirits to do what God has place in their hearts. This is the heart of discipleship – growing and maturing people to minister – even if it means they may displace us. It is a gracious spirit that makes room for his or her replacement.

Love, Dad